10 Literary Families to Make the Holidays Less Lonely

This is a memoir written in short vignettes about Shirley Jackson’s life in an old house with four unruly kids and a negligent husband.

When in labor and ready to deliver her third child, Jackson had to call a taxi and get herself to the hospital. Her oldest son, a terror, comes home every day with stories about a boy in class that is always in trouble, and as Jackson and her husband decide something must be done about this boy, they find out that the bad boy their son tells them about is actually him.

I wasn’t sure what a Shirley Jackson memoir would be like, but I absolutely hooted at this book. There are undertones of Shirley Jackson darkness here, but it’s all coated in a very funny story of a flawed family.

Song accompaniment: Training With Mr. Schaibel by Carlos Rafael Rivera

Junichiro Tanizaki is a big deal in Japan, but I’d never heard of him until this year. This book takes place right before WWII in Japan. There are four Makioka sisters. The two oldest are married, while the two younger sisters, Yukiko and Taeko, remain unmarried. Yukiko is very traditional and struggles to find a husband, preferring her life with her family to the uncertainty of a married life. Taeko, the youngest, is more modern and caused a scandal when she tried to elope a few years earlier. The two older sisters are desperately trying to find a suitable match for Yukioko so they can marry off Taeko before she causes anymore scandals. There are plenty of disasters, but also moments of tradition and ceremony that would be pleasing to any fan of Yasujirō Ozu’s movies.

Not only a novel about family, but also about a modernizing Japan and a woman’s place in a changing world. This is a not unlike a Jane Austen novel; full of subtext and social commentary, with witty thoughtful characters. It truly is a masterpiece.

Song accompaniment: The Belt of Faith by Jung Jae II

“I write this sitting in the kitchen sink.” Cassandra Mortmain lives in a decaying castle with her family of eccentrics. There’s her father who is suffering from writer’s block, her beautiful sister, airy stepmother, precocious younger brother, and Stephen, the family’s only servant and breadwinner. Cassandra captures her family’s exploits within three different notebooks over a period of a few months when two American boys join the family and begin disrupting all of their lives.

This is often compared to Jane Austen’s books (Austen’s coming up again, but I didn’t put any of her books on my list, so right here I’ll say: Sense and Sensibility or Pride and Prejudice would be great inclusions on a list about literary families), but I’d also say anyone who’s read Cold Comfort Farm or Nancy Mitford’s books would love I Capture the Castle. It’s just a delightful book, full of unruly people that are fun to hang out with for a little while.

Song accompaniment: Dawn by Dario Marianelli

It’s been years since I’ve read this, but I’m recommending it because it’s a classic and one of my favorites. Every time I see a yellow butterfly I’m reminded of this book. Do I remember the plot? Kind of. José Arcadio Buendía, the patriarch of the Buendia family, builds a home, and as the years pass a city is built around his original dwelling. Over one hundred years, the Buendia family and the home they created grows and changes. The ending stands out in my memory, but I won’t spoil it here!

Now, I’ll admit I debated between this and Eka Kurniawan’s Beauty is a Wound. Also a family saga, also magical realism, but Kurniawan’s book takes place in Indonesia during and after WWII. It has one of the best first lines, and I’m afraid if I include it here you’ll be less likely to pick Marquez. Oh well, here it is: “One afternoon on a weekend in March, Dewi Ayu rose from her grave after being dead for twenty-one years.” Anyway, really do read them both, because they’re great books.

Song accompaniment: Pruitt Igoe by Philip Glass

Every spring my dogs eat baby bunny nests. It happens every year, with every dog I’ve ever had. It’s horrifying, but the mom and dad rabbits are not very careful and generally make their nests in the middle of the yard, and my dogs, being dogs, find the bunnies and see nothing but a nice squeaky snack. Horrifying. But there was one exception to this traumatizing pattern. One of our dogs, a golden retriever, picked up a baby rabbit that my cats had been toying with (at this point it was still alive), and the bunny disappeared from view into his mouth. The members of my family that were standing outside were horrified, but the dog was unfazed. We ignored him, disgusted that he could be so callous. It wasn’t until he wanted to go inside that he opened his mouth, and the baby rabbit, very much alive, hopped off. I will never forget it.

Something like that happens in this book. In fact, many things like that happens in this book. It’s about four sisters—Rosalind, Skye, Jane, and Batty—and their summer spent at Arundel, a cottage that was “not only yellow, it was the creamiest, butteriest yellow the Penderwicks had every seen.” This is the first book in one of my favorite children’s series.

Song accompaniment: Orchard House by Thomas Newman

I discovered the Bagthorpe Series a few years ago. Helen Cresswell is English, so I’m sure these books are more popular there, but I’m going to try my hardest to make them popular here, too. I’ve only read the first two books, because I think the rest of the series is kind of hard to get. My copy of Ordinary Jack is an old library book and missing the first three pages, so I’ve no idea what happens at the beginning of this book. I’m sure it’s something hilarious, because both books are nonstop laughs.

The Bagthorpe family consists of Mr. Bagthorpe, who is delightfully crotchety; Mrs. Bagthorpe; their children William, Tess, Jack, and Rosie all prodigies except Jack; Grandma, who likes to start trouble; Grandpa who has SD (selective deafness); Uncle Parker; Aunt Celia, who is a poet; and Daisy, who is their troublemaking daughter. And then there’s Zero, the family dog. Nothing big ever really happens, but a bunch of small disasters add up, and it’s worth it just to see Mr. Bagthorpe’s reaction.

Song Accompaniment: Windsor Gardens by Dario Marianelli

This is the funniest book I’ve ever read. It’s outrageous that Gerald and Laurence are brothers. I tried reading The Alexandria Quartet after this memoir, and man, it’s hard to believe Larry wrote those books. In this story, Laurence Durrell is definitely a Larry (no offense to Larrys, that’s my dad’s name), and he’s such an indolent idler, but you’ll love him. You’ll love the whole Durrell family—his careless mother, his apathetic brother, his acne-ridden sister—as they move to the Greek island of Corfu to escape the awful British winter. Besides Gerry’s family, there’s also a lot of really excellent nature writing, and it feels like a real getaway when none of us can actually get away.

Song accompaniment: The Heroic Weather-Conditions of the Universe, Part 1: A Veiled Mist by Alexandre Desplat