10 ELEANOR OLIPHANT IS COMPLETELY FINE Book Club Questions + Guide

Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman is a popular choice for book clubs. The 2017 novel was a true publishing phenomenon in the author’s native UK. It was the bestselling book of 2018, selling over 300,000 copies more than the second most popular book, and topped the ebook charts for 19 weeks.

It also heralded a whole new sub-genre of book across the pond: known as up lit, it encompasses books which showcase the better side of human nature and leave us feeling better and more hopeful about the world – a world which, pre-pandemic but post-Brexit and post-Trump, was otherwise looking pretty grim.

In the U.S., too, the book has been popular: it spent 35 weeks on the New York Times Bestseller List. Its eponymous character, Eleanor Oliphant, is lonely, quirky, and arguably neurodivergent – and it’s the neurodiversity that makes her such an interesting and endearing character.

If your book club is reading Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine, here is a handy guide with a plot summary, themes, and suggested questions.

Please note that from here on, there will be spoilers!

Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine Summary

Eleanor Oliphant is 29 years old, single, and highly intelligent. She has no friends, unless you’re counting her meticulously planned daily routine and the two bottles of vodka she drinks at the weekends.

Her carefully planned life begins to unravel when she leaves work one day with a colleague, Raymond, and they witness an older gentleman fall in the street. This sets in motion a friendship both with Raymond and with the older gentleman and his family. When Eleanor is absent from work, and, in fact, planning her suicide, Raymond is sent to investigate, and he helps her to get better by encouraging her to see a doctor and a counsellor, and giving her a cat to look after. She begins to heal, and we learn that the weekly conversations with her overbearing, manipulative mother were actually all imaginary. When Eleanor was 10, her mother burned the house down, killing herself and Eleanor’s sister – and the fallout from this is the source of her scars, much of her trauma, and many of her defence mechanisms. By the end of the book, her life includes warmth and friendship and the sense of belonging she has never really had.

Themes in Eleanor Oliphant Is Completely Fine

Although Eleanor Oliphant is atypical, her struggles are universal: she’s lonely and longs for friendship. She had a difficult relationship with her mother (okay, this is an understatement). She suppresses memory and numbs her pain with defence mechanisms. Finally, she finds healing in community and therapy, and purpose in caring for something else – in this case, a cat.

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine Book Club Questions

  1. When did you start to suspect that Eleanor Oliphant was not, in fact, completely fine?
  2. Eleanor has very forthright opinions. Did you find yourself sympathising with any of her controversial views – for example, it’s as unfair to dislike someone because they’re attractive as it is to dislike someone because of a deformity. Or, I simply fail to see how the act of legally formalising a human relationship necessitates friends, family and co-workers upgrading the contents of their kitchen for them.
  3. Did you have any theories about what had happened to Eleanor as the story progressed? What were they?
  4. What role do you think the cat plays in Eleanor’s healing, if any?
  5. Were you hoping Eleanor and Raymond would end up dating? Why or why not? Do you think they might get together later, after the novel ends?
  6. What do you think it adds to the story that it is told in first person from the point of view of an unreliable narrator – not a malicious one, but one who is suppressing certain truths and memories from herself?
  7. There is a lot in the book that is very specific to British culture, like the references to tea and to different kinds of supermarket brands. Did this confuse you, distract you, or enrich the experience for you? Do you think these kinds of things should be “translated” or explained for an American audience? Why or why not?
  8. This book outsold every other book in the UK in 2018. Does that surprise you? Why do you think that was?
  9. When the world is on fire (no pun intended), do you prefer to immerse yourself in reading fiction related to current events, or escape by reading up lit? Why?
  10. What other books might people enjoy if they liked this one?

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