
Books with Strong Female Characters Over 50
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I have just celebrated my 50th birthday. I know many women would not find this to be a happy development. We have all heard “Never ask a woman her age,” as if the natural aging process is something to hide or fear. But I don’t feel that way at all. While there are definitely some adjustments to be made as middle age disappears in the rearview mirror—health issues, empty nest, menopause, retirement—I am finding a lot of freedom and excitement in my life at this age. I worry less about what other people think of me, am more confident in my own opinions, enjoy more time to invest in friendships, and continue to discover new passions and pursuits.
Society and the publishing industry are not so comfortable with aging women. Older women are often dismissed, seen as less vital, and pushed to go to great lengths to preserve their youth. And books with strong female characters over 50 are less than plentiful. But I have been enjoying some wonderful books lately about older women having a great second act in life. These are stories about women in their 50s, 60s, 70s, and 80s who are finding freedom, power, and joy as they age with grace and courage in a variety of circumstances. They are reinventing careers, finding hidden strengths, embarking on new love, and embracing change. Enjoy! And be sure to post your favorite books about amazing older women in the comments.
Rebecca Winter has spent years living in New York City as a successful and well-known photographer. But her career has passed its peak, and her funds are dwindling as she helps support her adult son and her aging mother. She decides to rent out her apartment in the city and move to a cottage in a small town. There she finds an entirely new life, full of strange experiences and interesting people, including Jim, a much younger local roofer. Quindlen imbues this charming, feel-good story with her trademark wit and thoughtful observations on aging, creativity, and identity.
McMillan has always been skilled at creating relatable female characters who are grappling with real-life problems and searching for fulfillment. If you loved Waiting to Exhale and How Stella Got Her Groove Back, you watched McMillan’s characters walk through their 30s and 40s. But in her most recent book, McMillan’s main character has aged along with you and is starting down the post-middle-age path. This book follows Dr. Georgia Young as she closes in on her 55th birthday. Her kids are grown, her career is a success, and she is single after a divorce. But Georgia feels stuck, like it is time for change. So she embarks on a new season by quitting her job, moving house, and opening herself up again for the possibility of love.
This is such a lovely, quiet book. Louis and Addie are in their 70s and live in the small town of Holt, Colorado. They have known each other for years, but not well. Both are lonely, their spouses having died years earlier, until one night, when Addie decides to pay Louis a visit. The two begin an unconventional friendship, surprised by the gift of companionship and comfort in their later years. Their children and fellow townsfolk challenge a relationship they don’t understand. It is a brief story, told in Haruf’s simple yet affecting style, that will stick with you long after you turn the last page.
Wallis recounts an ancient Athabascan Indian legend that was passed down through generations to her mother, who then passed it down to her. The legend tells of two elderly women, Ch’idzigyaak and Sa’, who are abandoned by their tribe due to a devastating famine. Stunned and freezing, but full of determination, Sa’ turns to the other woman and says, “They think that we are too old and useless. They forget that we, too, have earned the right to live! So I say if we are going to die, my friend, let us die trying, not sitting.” What follows is a moving story of burgeoning friendship and remarkable resilience as the two women survive the harsh year ahead.
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