It turns out, Mom and Dad weren’t kidding. Adulting is hard, y’all. But while there may not be a manual for mastering this whole grown-up thing, there are a few helpful guides! With illustrations, wise words, and very healthy doses of humor, these authors are here to get you through each day.
The Artist in the Office: How to Creatively Survive and Thrive Seven Days a Week by Summer Pierre
I never used to call myself a writer. Sure, I wrote things—sometimes, a lot of things!—but it wasn’t my day job. It wasn’t, for a long time, what I got paid to do. And it’s still not my full-time gig. Does that make me any less of a writer? No! As Pierre points out, Walt Whitman, Georgia O’Keeffe, William C. Williams, and Charles Bukowski—among many others—all held down day jobs. These steady gigs, Pierre shows us, make it possible for us to feel secure enough to explore our art. The pep talk in the introduction alone is worth buying the book. And the playful illustrations about how to keep our perspective on work, how to stay inspired and motivated, and how to incorporate art and into daily life are worth revisiting again and again. Even if you don’t consider yourself an artist, these practices will put a little extra shine on each day.
Make Your Place: Affordable, Sustainable Nesting Skills by Raleigh Briggs
The Worrier’s Guide to Life by Gemma Correll
Being an adult can be so stressful. Firefox keeps crashing, and this coffee doesn’t seem to have any caffeine in it, and wait a second is my loan payment late? And that’s not even counting potential future problems! What if your firstborn unwittingly shares a name with Brangelina’s next kid? What if your tombstone is written in Comic Sans?! It’s a worrisome world out there, but Correll leavens all these fears with a sharp wit and lighthearted jokes. She sees your Sharknado fears, and she raises you a Sealnami, a Crabalanche, and a Light but Relentless Drizzle of Anchovies. Her recommendation to make stickers for regular adult tasks has my full backing. Yes, I Voted! And I Also Flossed! The world can be a scary place, and the everyday anxieties of being an adult can sometimes threaten to overwhelm us. But the key is to incorporate a little fun even (especially) in these stressful moments.
How to Be Interesting (in 10 Simple Steps) by Jessica Hagy
Ink for Beginners: A Comic Guide to Getting Tattooed by Kate Leth
Just because you’re an adult now doesn’t mean you can’t have some fun! In fact, that’s the best part of being a grown-up—you can do whatever you want. Just make sure to do it responsibly. I’ve gushed about Kate Leth’s gorgeous illustrations and helpful tips on getting a tattoo before, but it’s worth mentioning again. For those seeking ink, Leth offers practical advice based on personal experience, from finding a reputable artist (as in, not some dude’s garage who will do it super cheap for the practice), to picking the perfect placement, to caring for the body art once it’s in place. Tattoo safely, my friends!